Reynosa, Mexico – Our Stories

After returning from our trip to Reynosa, our team had a chance to talk about our experiences at our church, Journey Fellowship, both at the Women’s Monthly Gathering on a Tuesday night and during both of our services on Sunday morning.

For the first blog in this series, visit Reynosa, Mexico: An Introduction.

Monica is one of the leaders of seventy girls in the American Heritage Girls Troop that meets at Journey Fellowship. Their twenty middle school girls were working on a badge that required sewing so they sewed fourteen dresses for little girls. Monica packed the dresses and took them down to Reynosa. On the second day of our trip, some of the women walked from our team around the community, met the neighbors, and asked if they wanted a dress for their daughters. The girls were shown the dresses in the their size and allowed to choose a one. We had five dresses left at the end of our walk and Monica didn’t want to take any home—she really wanted to bless more girls. We came upon a house and a beautiful little girl came out and we gave her a dress. The mother asked Sarah about a specific size and we handed her a dress. Then another little girl came out of the house and the mother asked if we had her size. We did, and we gave the little girl a dress. And another little girl—they just kept pouring out of the house—and we gave her dress. We had just one dress left, so we took it back to the build site. Sarah and Rolando went down to the little shop in the Colonia and met a man and his daughter and brought them back. She was was the perfect size for the very last dress.

Throughout our remaining days, we saw so many smiling little girls running around the community in their bright, colorful, new dresses.

Joe and Denis Harding come to New Braunfels from Minnesota every winter to get away from the cold. Last year they found out about Strategic Alliance and wanted to go, but then some things happened that caused concerns about safety and their daughter encouraged them not to. The following year they tried again and joined up with our team from Journey Fellowship. As a retired man, many might think that Joe is just going to take it easy. But as he read the Bible and he noticed Caleb who didn’t take it easy—he kept going. Caleb was eighty, working hard, and serving the Lord. Joe, at seventy-one, decided was not too old and that God still wanted to use him. But he wondered how God would use him because he didn’t have any construction skills. But that didn’t matter to God. Joe grew up in a shoe repair shop and at eleven years old started shining shoes. In Reynosa, God connected him with forty-year-old Jorge who lived in the dump and shined shoes in the city plaza. During their conversation, Joe prayed with Jorge. The next day Jorge came back wanting some more of that prayer and Joe prayed with him again. Joe realized that God is as concerned about each one of us as much as he is about others. When God calls us, when we hear his voice, we need to listen.

Joe spent a lot of time across the street at the Colonia church because he likes to clean windows . There were a large number of small windows in that little church and he cleaned every one of them inside and out. Even when little faces and fingers scrunched up against the glass to peek inside, Joe cleaned the windows. As the different teams built houses, Joe made sure that that the church was taken care of. When you listen, and when you decide to serve, God will use what you have. It’s beautiful to watch God use all the different abilities that we all bring.

Todd Clayton recounted the story of when we we thought we were running out of paint. We only had so much and went through five gallons of yellow. We were getting low and Todd was quite worried. He informed Cristiana from Strategic Alliance, wanting to know how we get more paint. “You don’t, she said. Todd was ready to go to Home Depot (there is one in Reynosa). Christiana said we should have been diluting the paint with water from the start, to stretch it. She instructed us to start diluting it. We did, but there wasn’t much paint left to stretch. Todd decided that there was something magic (or maybe miraculous) in that bucket because just about the time we poured what we thought was the very last of it out, we’d come back to the bucket and—you guessed it—there was just enough to pour some more. That probably happened three or four times. We thought we were dead out of paint, but God gave us just enough. It was was like watching the multiplication of loaves and the fishes in real time. God does that. When we have a fear, he will often answer with peace and provision, giving exactly what we need in the circumstances we’re in. What a faith builder to be able to watch that happen in real time.

Elizabeth, the comic relief of our group, added to the paint story. We put a paintbrush in her hand on the first day and she painted, painted, and painted some more. She said, “they kept bringing us more paint, more paint and we’re like, ‘oh we’re not done yet.’ I kept hearing people say, ‘we’re almost out of paint, we’re almost out of paint’ and I was like,’ oh good, I’ll stop’ and and all of a sudden they had more paint and I was like, ‘oh man.’ So we kept painting and painting and and it was amazing.

For Elizabeth, the trip was such a blessing because she had gone on a mission trip when she was in her young teens and now in her fifties, she thought she was too old to go (really? Fifties? I’m thinking that’s NOT old at all). She was willing and God used her. She’s thankful for those who gave so she could go and be able to make a difference in people’s lives. She’s hooked and plans to go again, God willing. She had a bad knee and worried that she might fall—the rough roads in the Colonia are no joke—but everybody watched over her. She painted, she walked about Colonia talking to the neighbors, she learned how to use power tools, and she filled hundreds of bags with food at fiesta. And she counts it all joy.

Sara and Rolando met a local storeowner when they walked down the rocky road to purchase drinks and chips at the “tiendita”—a very Mexican cultural thing to do, a way to connect with the community. Angel Miguel’s store was about eight houses down from the house we were building. Angel told of his gratitude that Strategic Allegiance had built him a house many years prior. His store, a large cinder block building—bigger than the house that had been built for him—serves as the local store for the community, as well as his family’s current home. The store stood in sharp contrast to another neighbor’s home. Sara and Rolando met Manuel while he kept warm beside a fire on the side of the road on a chilly morning. He was also grateful for the house Strategic Alliance had built for him years ago. He, like many of the locals, works at the nearby garbage dump, salvaging what he can salvage, in order to sell or use for his family. His house was now in disrepair and he respectfully welcomed any further help that he could receive.

During one of their daily trips to the store, Rolando mentioned his observation to Angel, that he and many others in the community received a gift, a house. But unlike some in the village, Angel used his as a springboard to grow a business and provide for his family. Other recipients seem to struggle in the same way they did when they first received the gift. Rolando boldly asked the storeowner an important question. “What is the difference?” Angel asked Rolando a question. “Have you read the Bible story of the talents?” Rolando knew the story of Jesus’ parable in Matthew 25:14-29 “It’s the same way here,” Angel told him. “Some receive a gift and it completely changes their life. Others receive a gift and it does not change them as much.” He said that when the house was built for him he knew it was a blessing from God and it gave him a way to make his and his family’s life better. He embraced business opportunities and he valued work. He believed when others doubted. His faith in the Lord brought him to where he is today. As our team drove back home, Sara marveled at how a makeshift group of twelve Christians could do so much for a few people in such little time. She left feeling blessed, knowing that the house we built and future homes that we hope to build will help some people get by for a time and give them a fighting chance in life. And it could also completely transform their lives!

Many of us on the team lacked construction skills, and Joe jokingly commented that he can measure forty times, cut, and still mess up. We wondered how we were going to be able to do what we’ve never done this before. God blessed us with with many skills. We had those, like Jeff—who raised his family coming to Reynosa— and those from Journey Fellowship like Jeff, Ian, and Cara who brought the knowledge we needed to build the house. When we entered into the job site not knowing what we were getting into, God started something beautiful, almost like a symphony orchestra, each one excitedly did our part, found somewhere to serve, tackled a task needing done. We built the house, and we made some friends along the way.

To see the full discussion of our stories at Journey Fellowship on February 4th, 2024, visit: Sending of Jesus.

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Reynosa, Mexico – And Beyond

Day Seven, and every day beyond

Despite coming home with congestion and a runny nose, I have an amazing amount of spiritual and physical energy. I don’t want to get sick so I force myself to rest and recover. One thing that stands out (among many) one thing the Lord has done, where I had been spiritually depleted and exhausted, I now look forward with eagerness and anticipation to the many things the Lord has on my heart and calendar. Had you told me a month ago that I’d come back refreshed, rejuvenated, and ready, I don’t know that I would have believed you. I fully expected to collapse, to be exhausted, to be done, and to need a long, long rest. Somehow out of the giving of the little that I had, I am now overflowing with abundance.

How has this come about?

Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. 
Luke 6:38

I gave. And the Holy Spirit gave bountifully in return.

December held such an fascinating contrast. My husband and I took two trips. The first, before Christmas, with our son, his girlfriend and her family on a cruise to the western Caribbean. We had a delightful time together onboard and ashore. And while I’m not a huge fan of cruises, I do enjoy being at sea and love spending the time with family and friends, experiencing new places and adventures. Cruises, however, can be over-indulgent, extraordinarily extravagant, and self-seeking.

The second, after Christmas, with our church to Reynosa to build a small house for a family in need. We had an amazing time together. I’ve been wanting to do something like this for so long. I love how God can use us in the smallest of ways to make the biggest difference. Reynosa was about giving, necessity, and serving. Reflecting back, the month brought both leisurely pleasures and profound fulfillment, underscoring the deep dimensions of joy and purpose in our lives. As we enjoy the blessings God gives us, we need also to remember to generously share with others.

For the first blog in this series, visit Reynosa, Mexico: An Introduction.

Something I saw, that I noticed, that I discovered in Colonia—and it doesn’t fit in the narrative often promoted in our media—is that not all people on the border are trying to get across. Not everyone wants to come to the US. I’d say most people really want to live in their own land, with their own family and friends, where they have been born and raised. I met people, living, working, taking care of each other every day, enjoying the everyday blessings of their lives, and sometimes just needing a little help, a little sharing of the kingdom of God.

It causes me to pause, reflect, and wonder. Consider the question. What would compel us to either sell or leave behind everything we own, pack up a few meager belongings, take our children, maybe pay everything we have, leave our home, our family, our friends, our culture, our life, and go, making an arduous and possibly dangerous trip to somewhere else. How bad would our lives have to be, how threatened would we have to feel for ourselves or our children, to flee everything we know? What would make us leave? Why would we go? Where would we go? Who would we trust? How would we get there? And when would we know we’re in a place we can stay?

This question comes to my mind as I consider—not the issue of immigration—but the faces, the names, the stories of each person. Each one, created in the image of our God. Deserving of dignity. Longing for love. Craving compassion. Hoping for hospitality. How now have we forgotten?

cries she. With silent lips. “Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tost to me,
I lift my lamp beside the golden door!”

Emma Lazarus
November 2, 1883
Statue of Liberty
This is what the Lord says: Do what is just and right. Rescue from the hand of the oppressor the one who has been robbed. Do no wrong or violence to the foreigner, the fatherless or the widow, and do not shed innocent blood in this place. 
Jeremiah 22:3

Father, forgive us. We don’t know what we’ve done. We don’t know what we do. Compel us now to return to you and what you’ve called us to. Dignity. Love. Compassion. Hospitality.

“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’

“He will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’

Matthew 25:40&45

Grace & Peace

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Reynosa, Mexico – Day Six Return

Day Six, December 31, Sunday, New Year’s Eve

In a whirlwind of activity, we finished the final touches on the house before our noon deadline. When Oscar, Pilar, and Christian arrived, we prayed for them then had a a heartfelt reveal. The afternoon Fiesta brought food distribution and entertainment for the surrounding community. Back at the hotel, everyone packs and prepares for an early departure the next day..

For the first blog in this series, visit Reynosa, Mexico: An Introduction.

Amazingly everyone wakes, packs, and meets at 3 am in the parking area. We load the trailer with our suitcases and the 12 of us pile into the van for the ride home, all sitting where we sat on the way down. 13 teams in their vans, loaded trailers, and one smoker actually leave by 330 am. We reach the border by 4 am and are through by 430 am. We stop at a Loves in McAllen to use the restroom and grab some breakfast and more coffee. I notice a sign in the bathroom encouraging toilet paper to be disposed of in the toilet rather than the trash. Just when I had finally remembered.

As we head north toward San Antonio, the sun lights up the early morning sky. During the drive, we recall favorite instances and share memories. We mention poignant moments and powerful stories. We talk about next year. What we want to bring, what we’ll do different and what we’ll do the same. We hope that others want to come and think about those we want to invite.

We arrive back to Journey Fellowship around 9 am and we’re unloaded in time for the 10 am service (only one service since it’s New Year’s Eve). We gather and pray then say our goodbyes. Some of us head into the service and some head home.

It’s been an amazing trip. I’m so thankful that I’ve been able to go. And look forward to going again.

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Reynosa, Mexico – Day Five Reveal and Fiesta

Day Five, December 30, Saturday

Yesterday unfolded with my personal frustration over limited tasks while the team worked on installing the roof. However, productivity did not stop. Others shopped for food, installed windows, learned about power tools, did touch-up painting, and crafted shelves from leftover materials. The propane camping stove arrived and to our delight, Raquel brought more tamales.

For the first blog in this series, visit Reynosa, Mexico: An Introduction.

Today brings a flurry of activity. Having felt under-utilized the day before, it’s now hit the ground running, don’t stop, we only have until noon to finish EVERYTHING.

Todd takes Elizabeth and Sara to Soriana to finish shopping for some last minute home supplies. Most of the house items (bedding, cookware, baby items, etc had been purchased and brought with us). The rest of us finish the final construction, install remaining shelves and paint, paint, paint everything inside.

As soon as the paint is dry enough, we descend on the inside with the bed, bedding, the table and chairs, cooking supplies, food, storage items, towels, and baby items. We find some rebar to construct a rod for the privacy curtain (shower curtains) for the bedroom and a clothing rod for their clothes. This brings me much delight because the plan was to use rope which would have sagged, and since I knew that would drive me crazy, I wanted something better for Pilar. The final touch: curtains on the windows.

We finish just in time for the family to arrive. We greet, pray, then have the big inside reveal. Todd anoints the family and presents them with a family bible and a children’s bible. Monica gives them a painting with a verse that her daughter made for them. I brought a wooden train alphabet that had been made for my youngest as a baby and also praying hands that my dad had made. The train adorns the edge of the loft and the praying hands sit on a shelf by the door.

Then we head down the street to Fiesta in a large open field at the edge of town. Food distribution draws the neighbors and the line winds along the fence around the field. Some of us hand out plastic bags to those waiting while others serve up (with huge smiles as warm as the December sun) the beans and rice, masa, oil, milk, and other food items.

In the center, families congregate under canopies and children fill the jump houses. Characters from Toy Story (Woody and Jessie) and Paw Patrol make an appearance to entertain, then the baseball player Jaimie Garcia gives a message. In another area, a team hands out hundreds of pork tacos, made from pork roasted in the smoker they had towed behind their truck to Reynosa .

At the end of the long, busy day, we leave. Tired. Filled. Grateful. We make another run to Soriana for those who want to purchase souvenirs (and I totally forget to get a magnet, which means I definitely have to come back) and any other items wanted. Sara loads up on a Mexican laundry detergent she absolutely loves. I grab a light breakfast for the next day and some coffee since we won’t have time to get any at the 7-11 like we had been doing.

The evening worship and sharing don’t last as long, because it will be an early morning. We are told to meet in the walled parking area at 3 am to load and be ready to leave by 330 am. It’s New Years Eve and we want to get across the border before the rest of the world wakes up for 2024.

Grace and Peace

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Reynosa, Mexico – Day Four Almost Done

Day Four, December 29, Friday

The day prior, I found unexpected joy in connecting with the Colonia community. Walking along the rough road, we encountered both locals and migrants, shared coffee and stories, and distributed dresses to neighbor girls while the rest of the team continued building the house.

For the first blog in this series, visit Reynosa, Mexico: An Introduction.

But this day is a different day. A very frustrating day for me, personally. I miss the opportunity to visit the dump with Sara and Rolando. I don’t have much work while the team installs the roof. They have enough hands to do what needs to be done. I keep busy with picking up wood and debris around the homesite and sweeping out the loft.

But, in the end, a very productive day overall because other good things happen as well.

  • Sara and Monica leave with Christiana and other team members from Strategic Alliance to shop for food for the family.
  • Final windows are installed.
  • Cara shows the other women how to use the power tools.
  • Denise does touch up painting on the outside.
  • We start installing shelves inside using leftover lumber. The home has no insulation or inside drywall. Studs are exposed and we use them to craft additional shelves.
  • Raquel stops by again, this time with Zacahuil (zaca-wheel)—Veracruz style tamales—wrapped in banana leaves. Instead of a firm masa, it has more of a polenta filling. Again work stops while everyone feasts.
  • Camping-style stove and a large bottle of propane arrive. This will be for cooking.

During the evening worship, we meet Edrai who originally came as a translator for a Colorado group where he taught as a youth leader. While he ministered to those in the dump, God showed him an alter there. He followed the Spirit’s prompting and started the ministry Mercy Without Borders with Strategic Alliance.

We’re introduced to another example of using what we have. A table in the back of the worship room has beautiful potholders for sale. Someone who came to Reynosa saw the need for those most affected by poverty: women and young mothers with children. The desire to “do something” led to women looming potholders at home while also being able to care for their families. The potholders are sold online (and at during the mission trips): the Potholder Ministry began, and the workers earn money to purchase much needed food and supplies for their families.

It makes me wonder, what might we teach women in order to earn money for their families. What do they have in their basket? The last question comes from a Tuesday morning bible study which I’ll share that lesson in a future blog.

During the planning of the mission trip to Reynosa, some had expressed concern to our Pastor, Todd, about the safety of going on a trip to the border. Unease was expressed about children going. Todd stands up to speak during worship and brings to everyone’s attention that half of the two hundred people making up the thirteen groups on the trip are under the age of twenty. Families have been coming for years and bring their children. The younger ones spend the days playing American football and soccer (football to the rest of the world) with the community children. The older ones work, paint, build.

We bring the young people forward, circle them, pray over them. Seeing all the young people on the trip, all the families, makes me thankful that my husband has a heart to serve, and makes me want to share the same with my children and grandchildren.

I am struck how, if we look, we will find pockets of people, loving Jesus, loving others, serving others, all around the world. No fame. No glory. No headlines. Rarely viral. Just serving. Just loving. Because of Jesus.

My friends. Don’t stop loving God. And don’t stop doing what he’s called you to do. Quietly. Faithfully. To be Jesus to the least of these.

Grace & Peace

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