Looking Back>Katrina 10 Years Later; Christina van Driest

On the 10th anniversary of Katrina I find myself living on beautiful Vancouver Island on the west coast of Canada. The climate is more temperate so we don’t get the heat and humidity but when we get a gust of wind in the tall Douglas fir trees around our home, a part of me looks outside, shivers and remembers some of the events leading up to, during and post Katrina.

One particular memory is at the shelter.

During Hurricane Katrina our family found shelter at the University of Southern Mississippi’s Lab Building 1022 at the Stennis Space Center. This was a new building designated as Hurricane safe for University faculty and staff and their families. There were about 30 people staying in the building, mainly family members of faculty. My husband was faculty so we packed up our 3 kids, some sentimental items and took cover. There also was a family brought in from the main shelter at Stennis that consisted of a grandfather, a grandmother, daughter and two teenage grand-daughters. They lived south of the railway tracks in Bay St Louis, the area hardest hit.

While the hurricane screamed around us,we waited with nerves stretched thin wondering what we were going to find when it was all over. I would try to read but there was a restlessness that made it hard to concentrate. The kids brought movies to watch but were also feeling the restlessness and anticipation. At one point the waiting was interrupted by a tornado that took a piece of the roof off one of the lab rooms. A number of us scurried to help pull out, and dry off $100,000 in lab equipment, while the water from the roof overhead poured down into a drain in the floor of the room. The excitement helped to pass time.

I will never forget the high pitched screaming of the wind forcing its way through the cracks around the doors of the building. When the eye of Katrina passed over us, it was completely and suddenly silent. After being cooped up for many hours, a number of people were anxious to get outside but were told to keep the doors secured and closed because we did not know what to expect when the other side of the eye wall hit. The other side of the eye came, but with less force. We waited some more.

Finally, we were able to open the doors and go out into a world that was changed forever, both physically and emotionally for each of us. Anxious to check on our dogs, my husband set out for Diamondhead as soon as enough flood water had receded off the interstate. The kids and I again waited to find out if we still had a home and that our dogs were OK.

The usual 15 min drive home took hours to go and return.

As the sun set, we sat in chairs in silence outside of that lab building and listened to the first reports of casualties to human life, to buildings and more on the radio. Many people, myself included, cried. The elderly grandfather would crank his radio and we listened to people that still had cell service call in with reports. I will never forget the anguish and emotion in voices of strangers. It brought me to tears. They said things like “bodies in the streets”, “the casinos are completely gone, washed away”, “I have nothing left”, “the Kmart in Waveland was completely under water”, and “everything south of the tracks along the coast has been destroyed” The radio would start to lose power and before the grandfather could crank it again, everyone was sniffling.  I remember hearing the daughter murmuring “it’s all gone, it’s all gone”.

Crank, crank, crank…

We later found out, they had indeed lost everything.

My husband made it back late, but was able to report our dogs were extremely happy to see him and fine. Our home was still standing, although we had some large trees on the roof. The water was up to the edges along the highway and the streets were not passable in Diamondhead due to so many downed trees. He had had to park and hike in to our house. We were able to leave the shelter the next morning and go home. Something I felt so grateful to be able to do. So many did not have homes to return to.

When we left the shelter early the next morning we exchanged contact information with a number of other people. Although our cells had gone silent at Stennis we had a 2 hr window of use when we made it back to Diamondhead. I was unable to call anyone in the US however; I was able to call into Canada. I called my mother in Fredericton, NB and gave her a list of names and numbers. She made contact with anxious friends and relatives waiting to hear in our family as well as other family members of fellow shelter residents.

The aftermath of clean-up survival is a whole other story.

The one thing the hurricane did show me is that, ultimately when disaster hits, most people pull together and help take care of each other. There is goodness in the human spirit that can be found in most people.

Christina van Driest currently lives in Sidney, BC Canada. She is in the middle of renovating a home with a view of mountains and ocean. Chris and her husband David Dodd are very pleased to have all 3 of their children now residing close by on Vancouver Island. At the time of Hurricane Katrina, Chris and her family lived in Diamondhead, Mississippi.

Grace & Peace

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Looking Back>Katrina 10 Years Later; Gabrielle Leonard

It doesn’t feel like we’ve already reached the 10 year anniversary of
Hurricane Katrina.

Everything still feels recent.

I remember where I was Monday morning, August 29, 2005.
I remember turning on the TV at 7:15 a.m. and watching the sky camera pan over a local market just a couple blocks from our house, fully submerged under water.
I remember walking down the hallway to my grandmother’s hotel room with my mom and sisters in Shreveport, Louisiana.
I remember her flushed face full of tears and watching her sit in shock as my mother consoled her.

But I don’t remember exchanging many words that day
and I don’t remember having many thoughts.

The only thing that felt clear in those moments was the confusion very present around me. It was a moment in my family’s life where even striving to control anything around us felt stupid and a waste of energy. I quickly became a spectator watching life play out before my eyes. I hated being forced to realize I had ZERO control over my life.

Katrina came with humbling winds.

I was forced to recognize that everything I strive for and/or attain here in this life could be taken from me in mere seconds. In a matter of seconds all my trophies from sports were lost, all my clothes ruined, our home uninhabitable, and our friends scattered different places around the country.

In 2005 my main goal was to gain acceptance into the New Orleans Center for Creative Arts. I practiced diligently throughout the year for my fall auction. I was accepted into the school but was only a student there for a week when Hurricane Katrina hit. As my family and I began packing to leave before the storm, I remember thinking I was just getting a couple days vacation and would quickly return to become acquainted with my new school.

The plans I held for my life then didn’t take place but neither have many of my plans today. This doesn’t mean that working hard, dreaming passionately, and having goals are pointless. What made recovering from Hurricane Katrina hard wasn’t the fact that I had goals that didn’t get met, lost items that were valuable to me or that I was forced out my home town. It was hard because I had placed so much of my identity in those goals, in what I had and who I believed I was becoming.

Jesus used a physical storm to reveal to me how unstable life was for me because I was placing my hope and trust in everything besides Him. I’ve spent too many years placing my trust in my abilities, other’s approval, or what I have. It is exhausting and frankly I don’t believe any of us are made to carry such a heavy load.

10 years later Hurricane Katrina still feels fresh and she still teaches me today to let go and trust God. Our life is not our burden to bear it is His. The more I give control over to Jesus the more Joy I find in my life daily. Not because He grants my every wish or protects me from experiencing tragedies like Katrina but because He does what He has promised to do: Love me unconditionally.

Gabrielle Michelle Leonard currently lives in San Antonio, TX. She works as the Marketing Director for Chick-fil-A Schertz. Gabrielle received a BA degree from Baylor University in the spring of 2014.  At the time Hurricane Katrina, Gabrielle and her family lived in the lower 9th ward in New Orleans, Louisiana.  

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Looking Back>Katrina 10 Years Later; Jeanette Everett

He has a plan for me; I need only to follow….

A few months after Katrina blew through, mission teams started rolling in to the Coast, providing numerous types of assistance, everything from a simple meal to outreach programs to restoration efforts……

Crochet AngelWith one of the teams came a very sweet and humble lady. She brought homemade clothes-pin dolls to share with a few. The doll was a small homemade creation intended to remind its recipient of the promise of God’s presence, and His plan. It was a simple creation, a small crocheted dress fashioned onto an old-style clothes pin.

While she and her mission team spent the week with us, hosting Vacation Bible School and working on some of the many restoration jobs, she tried to spend time with me. This proved to be a challenge. With work, kids, our own restoration activities and the daily routines of life, I had little time to socialize. On the last day of their visit, however, she and her husband stopped by our home and she handed me one of those sweet dolls. On the bottom of the doll she had written a scripture reference: Jude 1:24-25. I must admit that I took me some time to stop and look up the scripture. But once I did, it was just the “God promise” that I needed, as my body, mind and spirit were spent:

“Now all glory to God who is able to keep you from falling away and will bring you with great joy into his glorious presence without a single fault.  All glory to him who alone is God, our Savior through Jesus Christ our Lord.  All glory, majesty, power and authority are his before all time and in the present and beyond all time! Amen.” (NLT)

It was in that moment that I was reminded, even though I went about my daily routines, doing things my way, HE had an even better plan for me.

He still has that better plan for me…. and while there are days when I do not fully understand His plan, I do know, because of the promises found in His Word….. He has cut a path in the wilderness for me and He will guide me through all of its twists, turns, and distractions. I need only to follow.

Jeanette Everett, wife of one, mother of four, and passionate for “abundant living” resides in South Mississippi. Her life has been an incredible journey, providing her opportunities to learn, love, and experience life to its fullest, which she enjoys sharing with others.

Katrina was a brief stop on her journey. Many things changed for her when Katrina blew into town, but the truth of God’s love, mercy and grace didn’t change. She has been guided in every way by His abundant wisdom!

Her MOTTO: Live with passion, love with all your heart, laugh often. As Jesus said, HE came so that we can live ABUNDANTLY!!!

Grace & Peace

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Hurricane Katrina: 10 Years Later

I cannot believe it has been ten years since hurricane Katrina hit the Gulf Coast of Mississippi.  It seems like a lifetime ago and yet it seems like only yesterday.

In the month leading up to the anniversary, I will share with you the guest blogs of some special ladies who each had their own unique experiences with Hurricane Katrina.  I have invited them to share their thoughts.

As we look back and remember, I also want to share with you my journey.

I kept a daily journal of our experience and emailed it out to family and friends. On this 10th anniversary, I am going to publish each entry on its corresponding day.

As I have reread and prepared each post, my tears flow fresh as I relive the uncertainty, the struggle, and the loss encountered by myself and hundreds of thousands of others. I also give thanks to how the Lord led us through, how He provided, and what He taught us. I rejoice over the caring friends, families and strangers, as well as the blessings in the midst of devastation.

I invite you to join me and remember..

Grace & Peace

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First Verse, a journey through the Psalms: Psalm 44

O God, we have heard it with our own ears—
our ancestors have told us of all you did in their day, in days long ago.
(Psalm 44:1, NLT)

I like how the Message translates this verse: “We’ve been hearing about this, God, all our lives. Our fathers told us the stories their fathers told them,”

Whether we know it or not, we pass on stories to our children. So, we must ask ourselves, what are the stories we are telling? Because these stories will become a part of who they are and will be passed down to their children.

This truth was conveyed in the movie Inside Out by Pixar/Walt Disney Pictures. If you haven’t seen it, I highly recommend it. In the story, Riley’s loving parents passed on stories (the movie calls them core memories) of love and laughter. While the movie goes on to depict the struggle Riley has with conflicting and even repressed emotions, I want to focus more on the stories her parents gave her.
We are only given a glimpse.  But they were good.  They gave Riley confidence in who she was and a sense of where she fits in the world. Of course, these stories can be turned upside down in the midst of life’s changes (as happened to Riley), but when the good stories are reinforced, we can navigate the changes and come through even stronger.

However, sometimes, the stories we’ve received as children are not the same story our fictional Riley received.

Sometimes we receive negative stories.  Sometimes we’re told we’re no good, we’ll amount to nothing, we don’t matter.  Or we hear that life sucks and the world is always out to get us.

Sometimes we’re told that to survive, we need to rely on a substance to get us through.  Or that we need to get while the gettin’ is good.  Or that its okay to run others down, to always put ourselves first, and if we’re not happy, to move on until we are.

These stories are not life giving.  They are life draining.

We can choose, however, to change the stories.  It takes work, it takes being intentional, it takes choosing a new story every day.  But it can be done.

Because our Heavenly Father always has a better story.  He tells us He loves us and that we do matter and He has a plan for us.  He says, yes, in this life there will be trouble, and yes, there is an enemy who seeks to take us down.  BUT – He says – I am greater and I have overcome the world and the enemy is defeated.

He tells us to rely on Him for our strength and to get us through.  When we do, we won’t just survive, we will THRIVE.  He will provide for us and that in His kingdom, the first will be last and the last will be first.  He tells us to encourage one another and to love one another.  He tells us real joy comes from within, from the hope He has placed in us, not in our circumstances.

Choose today which story you will tell.  For it will make a difference.  It will make a difference in your life.  And it will make a difference in the legacy you leave. Because as the Psalmist says, “Our fathers told us the stories their fathers told them,”

What stories will your children tell?

Prayer
Heavenly Father, Let me hold fast to that which is true: the good stories passed down to me. Rewrite the negative stories I have received.  From this day forward, let my stories be true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious, the best, the beautiful, and things to praise.  And may I pass down a story worth telling.

Grace & Peace

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