Building Oak Haven – How it all Started

1032-bridlewoodIn April of 2014, my husband and I ran into a neighbor who had moved to a new neighborhood and he excitedly told us about his new home. He mentioned access to a private park on a river and immediately had my husband’s attention.

We took a ride that afternoon and my husband did something very out of character. He pulled into the parking lot of a realtor’s office at the front of the neighborhood and went in. After a brief discussion, the realtor gave us a list of lots within our price range and an access card to the river park. We drove down to the river park and then around the 1700+ acre ranch-turned-country neighborhood and fell in love.

A couple of months later, after lots of prayer and much exploring of potential lots, the realtor called with a new listing she thought we might like. She was right. It was perfect. A one acre lot with several groves of live oaks that backed up to a draw on an out-of-the-way, no outlet street. We purchased it, fulfilling the dream we had of owning a piece of the Texas Hill Country close to civilization.

In September of the same year, following several discussions with a friend of ours, we signed on with UBuild It.  The company enables customers to build their own custom home through their network of expert home construction and design consultants for less than it would cost to go through a traditional builder. We hoped to start building our home after our youngest graduated high school and after we sold our house in Mississippi.

We spent the next year and half clearing our lot, envisioning where the house would be placed, and dreaming of what it would be like to live there.

In January of 2016, we hired a home designer and began turning our sketches (derived from hours spent perusing floor plans on the internet) into a buildable house plan. We were amazed to see how our home designer took everything we asked for, fit it all together and even added some wonderful details to the vision of our home.

May of 2016 rolled around, and after our daughter and her husband moved out of our Mississippi house (our daughter and son-in-law lived there while she attended her Navy C-school at Keesler AFB), we put the house on the market.  In June of 2016, our youngest graduated high school and was ready to head off to college.  Over the next few weeks, we anxiously waited for an offer on the house. It finally came and by the end of July, we were no longer homeowners in the state of Mississippi.  It was time for the next step.

We finalized our house plans in August and then in October, we submitted our paperwork to the bank for our construction loan. As we waited, we visited home decor stores and business and made appointments with experts for cabinets, granite, stone, plumbing fixtures, windows, doors and flooring.  I also spent way to much time online shopping for everything from cabinet fixtures to furniture.

I have to admit, I have a ton of pictures from open houses, Pinterest and Houzz, depicting what I liked and what I wanted.  It helped me stay engaged and get an idea of what we wanted while we waited for the bank to give us the go ahead.

We also spent a lot of time on our property, doing additional clearing, walking the boundary lines and praying for how the Lord would have us use it, laying prayer paths through the trees, and enjoying the peace and beauty of the place.

This week, we received the news our loan has been approved! We still have to close, but once we do, we will schedule another appointment with UBuild It and begin the construction phase of our home.

We are so excited and so blessed. We look forward to what the Lord has planned for this little slice of Texas Hill Country. I invite you along on our journey as I chronicle the ups, the downs, the joys, the frustrations, and the over all process of building of our new home on a piece of land we call Oak Haven.

Grace and Peace

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First Verse, a journey through the Psalms: Psalm 50

The Lord, the Mighty One, is God, and he has spoken;
he has summoned all humanity from where the sun rises to where it sets.
(Psalm 50:1, NLT)

From the beginning, God has spoken to us. In fact, He has called us. Often by name.

God walked with Adam in the garden, and when Adam failed to show up one day, “the Lord God called to the man and asked him, ‘Where are you?'” (Genesis 3:9, GW)
God set a bush on fire to get Moses’ attention. “When the Lord saw that Moses had come over to see it, God called to him from the bush, ‘Moses, Moses!'” (Exodus 3:4, GW)
God called Samuel when he was a young boy, sleeping in the temple. “The Lord came and stood there. He called as he had called the other times: ‘Samuel! Samuel!'” (1 Samuel 3: 10, GW)
God had Jesse and Samuel call David in from the sheep fields. “Samuel told Jesse, ‘Send someone to get him. We won’t continue until he gets here.’ So Jesse sent for him.” (1 Samuel 16:11-12)
And God called out to Isaiah, “Then I heard the voice of the Lord, saying, “Whom will I send? Who will go for us?” (Isaiah 6:8, GW)

If God calling us is not personal enough, He gets even more personal. Scripture tells us, “In the past God spoke to our ancestors at many different times and in many different ways through the prophets. In these last days he has spoken to us through his Son.” (Hebrews 1:1-2, GW)

God’s Son. Immanuel. Hebrew meaning “God with Us.”

This past Sunday marked the beginning of the Advent Season. Advent is latin for the word “to come” and is a time of expectation, anticipation, and preparation. We are waiting. Waiting for the coming of the One God has promised, His Son, Jesus, Savior, Messiah, Anointed One, Immanuel.

When Jesus walked this earth among us, He continued to speak, to call us.

Jesus called his disciples. “As he was walking along the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon (called Peter) and Andrew. They were throwing a net into the sea because they were fishermen. Jesus said to them, ‘Come, follow me!'” (Matthew 4:18-19, GW)

Jesus also called Saul. “As Saul was coming near the city of Damascus, a light from heaven suddenly flashed around him. He fell to the ground and heard a voice say to him, ‘Saul! Saul! Why are you persecuting me?'” (Acts 9:3-4, GW)

In each instance, the one God called answered, responded, acted.

And the Lord continues to call. “For the Lord’s eyes scan the whole world to find those whose hearts are committed to him…” (2 Chronicles 16:9, GW)

At Christmas, we read how the Angel proclaimed “Don’t be afraid! I have good news for you, a message that will fill everyone with joy.” (Luke 2:10, GW)  This message, the good news, is Jesus, the One by Whom God calls us.  “With this in mind, he called you by the Good News which we told you so that you would obtain the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (2 Thessalonians 2:14, GW)

What joy, to be called by God. This Advent Season, as God calls, are you listening? Are you quieting your hearts to hear God speak? Are you slowing down enough to pay attention? As Jesus so often urged, “Let the person who has ears, listen!” (Matthew 13:9, GW).

 

From where the sun rises to where it sets

God calls, from where the sun rises to where it sets

Prayer

Heavenly Father, as you call us this Advent Season, let us listen, let us hear, let us answer. 

 

Grace & Peace

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First Verse, a journey through the Psalms: Psalm 48

How great is the Lord, how deserving of praise,
in the city of our God, which sits on his holy mountain!
(Psalm 48:1, NLT)

If ever we wonder about the importance of praise, we need look no further than the Psalms. While these beautiful poems run the gamut of human emotion, they always come back to praise. So, this week, we look at yet another call to give praise to the Lord. Always appropriate on any day, I find praise even more so as we celebrate the holiday season.

For some, this constant praise to God may seem a bit over the top. I mean, is God so egocentric that He needs or requires our praise? Definitely not. As I get to know my Heavenly Father more and more, I realize that, as a perfect father, everything He does, He does for our good and benefit.

We praise a lot of things in life, some deserving, some not so deserving. We praise sports teams, and singers/musicians, movie stars, leaders and our children. We praise the look of new cars, the awesomeness of the latest phone, or the newest gadget. We praise careers and positions that come with power, prestige and money. We praise beautiful homes and memorable vacations.

All of these things, however, have one thing in common.  They are temporary. They pass away, withering like flowers, fading like grass. They do not last.  They may be good in their own right (or maybe not), but they will soon turn into yesterday’s news, become a memory, tossed in the junk drawer, or the junk yard.  Or they may disappear because the economy took a downward turn, or the pink slip came, because time crept in, or someone let us down. When the disappointment comes (and it will), where can we turn?

To the One Who is deserving of praise.

Since our Heavenly Father knows we need something reliable in our lives, a sure foundation, something trustworthy, dependable, unfailing. He gives us Himself. He is all of these and so much more.

One of the things I love about my time praying with Moms in Prayer is that we start out each prayer time with praise. We select an attribute or a characteristic of God, we read Scriptures that focus on the attribute or characteristic, and we spend time praising God for Who He is. When we start in the position of looking up and seeing how awesome He is, then as we bring our needs to Him, we are confident there is nothing He cannot do. No problem too big, no person too lost, no situation to difficult.  Because we’ve already established in our minds and hearts the truth that He is bigger.

Sometimes, when I’m walking by myself, I practice the Alphabet Prayer. I start with the letter A and work through the alphabet, all the way to Z, acknowledging an attribute or characteristic of God for each letter.  I never run out of words.

Our God, He is
Amazing, Beautiful, Compassionate, Defender, Everlasting, Faithful
Generous, Helper, Immutable, Just, Kind, Love, Mighty
Noble, Omniscient, Patient, Quick, Redeemer, Sovereign,
Trustworthy, Undeniable, Victorious, Wise ,eXciting, Yes, Zealous

Give it a try.
You will find your focus on the One Who is certain in a very uncertain world.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, You are deserving of praise, far above anything this world has to offer. Help me set my priorities properly and praise You for Who You are.

Grace & Peace

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First Verse, a journey through the Psalms: Psalm 47

Come, everyone! Clap your hands!
    Shout to God with joyful praise!
(Psalm 47:1, NLT)

Have you found things to give thanks about this month? Have you looked around and observed the precious things in life? Have you made the effort to tell someone thank you for something?

If you are, have you noticed a change in your overall attitude, a transformation in your countenance, a shift in your outlook on life.

Interestingly, these things happen when we choose joy rather than gloom.

But why would we want to do that? Aren’t some things bad enough to grumble about? I mean, if you knew the day I had, you’d understand why I have a reason to complain. If you understood my circumstances, you’d understand my sour disposition. If you really took a look at the world around us, wouldn’t you be worried, too?

True, I haven’t walked a mile in your shoes. But I have walked many miles in mine. And believe me, I’ve had my share of troubles, grumbles, sufferings, complainings, moanings and groanings. And I can testify, things didn’t get better because of it. Rather, they really seemed worse.

I needed to rethink my thinking. Maybe you do, too?

It’s been said we shouldn’t conform ourselves to the standards of this world (grumbling and complaining), but we should let God transform us inwardly by a complete change of our mind (our heart, our attitude).

Wisdom tells us “Worry weighs a person down; an encouraging word cheers a person up.” (Proverbs 12:25 )

So, if I’m worrying, I’ve loaded myself down with extra weight. Who wants to walk around with extra weight? Do I want to miss the opportunities to encourage someone else? Or I miss the person who tried to encourage me?

Wisdom also tells us “A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a broken spirit saps a person’s strength.” (Proverbs 17:22)

Feeling tired lately? Could be negativity. Feeling weak? Could be a critical spirit. Let’s take a dose of the cure. A spoonful of gratitude, turning our heart from trouble to cheer.

Finally, Wisdom says, “A cheerful look brings joy to the heart; good news makes for good health.” (Proverbs 15:30 )

Good health sounds good to me, how about you? Do you have some good news? Share it and share it with a smile. It will not only bring you joy, but someone else as well. We can all use a little more joy.

Paul instructs us in his letter to the Philippians to “Always be full of joy in the Lord.” He goes on to say “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.” He also told the Thessalonians to “Be thankful in all circumstances.”

I know, I know. It sounds quite challenging. If it was easy, well, we wouldn’t need the reminder, would we?

It really comes down to a choice. Will we choose the benefits of a thankful heart? Or the complications of a critical one?

James even tells us to “count it all joy.” Count what all joy? When the good times roll?  No, not really.  Rather he tells us to count it all joy when trouble comes. If that sounds a bit crazy, well, check it out. James makes a pretty good argument. James 1:2-8

Prayer
Heavenly Father, You abide in the praises of Your people. And where you are, that’s where I want to be. So, I’m clapping my hands. I’m shouting with joyful praise. And I’m giving thanks for the big things, the small things, and all things in between.

Grace & Peace

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First Verse, a journey through the Psalms: Psalm 44

O God, we have heard it with our own ears— our ancestors have told us of all you did in their day, in days long ago

‭‭Psalms‬ ‭44:1‬, NLT‬‬

Thanksgiving. A time to remember what God has done. A time to tell our children of God’s faithfulness in our lives. A time to give thanks.

At a recent retreat, a beautiful friend talked about the broken areas in our lives, those places where we made mistakes or where bad or unexpected things happened to us. Sometimes we find it difficult to be thankful for those kinds of things. How can they possibly be good?

But our God promises to use all things for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

My friend illustrated her message with glass. When a glass bottle is whole, it reflects some light. But when the glass is broken into many pieces, it reflects more light than it did before, a sparkling, brilliant display.

In the same way, our God can take our messes, our pain, and the brokeness in our lives and turn them into a sparkling, brilliant display of His glory. He gives us beauty for ashes (Isaiah 61:3) and gives back what was lost to the enemy (Joel 2:25).

My friend also talked about how glass is made, from sand and heat. When heat is applied to the sand, the sand melts and is transformed into a different substance that, when cooled, becomes transparent, usable and lovely.

Broken pieces of glass reflect more light

Isn’t that like our God, to take us, whom he formed from the dust of the earth, (1 Corinthians 15:47a) and allow the trials and struggles of this life change us into something even more beautiful and precious (1 Peter 1:7).

When you look back over your life, can you see the places where God uses the broken pieces to allow you to reflect more of His light for others to see (Ephesians 5:8)?

 

 

 

 

Prayer 
Heavenly Father, during this season of thanksgiving, let us shine with brilliance and  transparency, giving You thanks in all things and telling others what You have done.

Thank you Christina Gallegos for sharing your beautiful story and, like glass, being so transparent. Christina has written a beautiful story about never giving up and having the resolve needed to push through obstacles!  Find her story here: The Tree Stands Firm

Grace & Peace

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